Adversity + Perseverance = Success

Perseverance, Sports

As I sit and watch Super Bowl 50 in my living room, I can’t help but think about the amazing narrative on perseverance that Cam Newton has brought to the attention of all who watch him.

At first glance, his football story seems like the classic comeback narrative. He goes the University of Florida and makes a couple of mistakes, heads to junior college in Texas where he seems to reinvent himself, and then emerges as dominant as soon as he hits the scene at Auburn. Now five years later he finds himself at the Super Bowl 50 and the leagues MVP.

While I can sit here and rave about him, there is one quality that I can’t help but respect about him.  Perseverance!

“Consider it pure joy, my brothers and sisters, whenever you face trials of many kinds, because you know that the testing of your faith produces perseverance. Let perseverance finish its work so that you may be mature and complete, not lacking anything.” – James 1: 2-4

“Not only so, but we also glorify in our sufferings, because we know that suffering produces perseverance; perseverance, character; and character, hope. And hope does not put us to shame, because God’s love has been poured out into our hearts through the Holy Spirit, who has been given to us.” – Romans 5:3-5

From the days of watching Michael Jordan… I was born in 1995 when he first retired… so from the days of hearing about Jordan and watching his old games, I always wondered how he was able to be so great. It seemed like every time he stepped on the court he knew he was going to score, and that is what he did. But what really blew me away is the fact that he made it look so easy. Watching him was like doing elementary math

Jordan + will to score/win = instant buckets/wins

But anyone who believes that it was that easy is foolish. Jordan had his fair share of setbacks. Most notably not making his high school varsity team. Who would have thought one of the best in the game suffered such a great setback.

The same can be said for Cam. This man went to the University of Florida where he found himself sitting behind the school’s best and most popular player, Tim Tebow. Tim was the Heisman winner at the time, so what was Cam supposed to say? “Put me in coach! Leave your Heisman winner on the bench.” Um… no. He never really got playing time and on top of that he got in trouble with the law.

In a situation where it seemed like there was no light at the end of the tunnel, Cam found himself going even deeper into the tunnel before he could get out.

Lesson #1: Sometimes it has to get worse before it gets better

I guess Cam would call that deep part of the tunnel Blinn College. From the interviews I watched, Cam’s time at in Brenham, Texas was the most humbling of his career. It was there that he was able to revamp himself. He was reconstructing his identity and shedding the mistakes of his past.

I would say he did a pretty good job, because the next year he was at Auburn as the starting quarterback who led their team to a national title and was the Heisman winner.

With all of this being said, I think Cam showed tremendous perseverance. While things did not go his way earlier on in his career, he had the will power and the fight to turn it around. Michael Jordan did too.

Lesson #2: If you don’t like where you are, what you’re doing, etc., you have the power to change it!

I’m sure you could ask every person that you consider to be successful their story on how they got to where they are now, and there will be at least one if not many examples of adversity that they had to overcome to become the successful people they are today.

Lesson #3: Change takes time.

Cam didn’t go from nobody to somebody overnight, and neither did Jordan. Think about it, Jordan was cut from his high school team, and is most known for his performance in the NBA. Think about all the time that had passed in between those two parts of his life. On the other had, Cam had to spend a year in the middle of nowhere (sorry if you’re from Brenham, Texas) getting better to be the player he was at Auburn.

What I’m trying to say is that many of the greats that I admire experienced setbacks that did not break them, and for that they were and are successful. Micheal Jordan once said, “… I’ve failed over and over again in my life. And that is why I succeeded.”

Lesson #4: Have a vision.

As long as you have a vision of where you are going and where you want to be, if you hold that vision close to you for long enough, that is exactly where you will go. Think, speak, and write your success into existence and watch yourself slowly move towards your goals. It has worked for the most successful people in the world, and I’m sure it can work for you.

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Saying “No” To Pro

Sports

It gets old when people look at me and say, “You play basketball, right?” As if that is the only thing I do. But that’s not the annoying part. It’s the part when everyone automatically assumes that I want to go to the WNBA.

Sometimes you really can’t blame them, because the average person assumes that the WNBA is equivalent to the NBA, but is it really?

In 2011 the average number of fans at any given NBA game was 17,319. On the other hand, the average number of fans at a WNBA game was 7,955.

If we look at the numbers, an average salary in the NBA during the 2013-2014 season was $4.9 million. But prime time players made so much more. For example Kobe Bryant, who was the top paid player in the league that year, made $30.45 million.

The average salary for WNBA players was $72,000 in 2012, and the minimum sat as low as 36,570 for rookies; I think that minimum still stands true today. The same goes for the maximum salary per player, which is $105,000.

Now you tell me, would you want to play in the WNBA if you knew you could make more money going into a different profession outside of professional women’s basketball?

But then here comes the comments like, “But you do it for the love of the game, right?”

Many WNBA players have second jobs, many of which are playing overseas in European leagues.

For those who do not know, the money in women’s basketball is overseas. When women go to play overseas they can make anywhere from $100,000+, much better than the $105,000 cap they were looking at in the WNBA. But keep in mind that this is their second job. They play year around and it is taxing on their bodies.

When it comes to the NBA, their season is long, 6 months, but they do get a break. On the other hand, the WNBA season is 4 months long, but after the women will usually go directly from their season in the WNBA into their season’s overseas. Often, many of the WNBA players will not be back for the start of their season because they are finishing up their contracts with their overseas teams.

I’m sure they fit a break in here or there, but it is nothing like the extended break that an NBA player receives.

Again, I ask you, would the WNBA be you’re end goal knowing what you know now?

There is always that statement that, “Not every WNBA player plays overseas.”

Yes, you are correct, but that still does not take away from the fact that they hold more than one job. Of course these remarkable women can do more than just play. The majority of these women have a completed college degree upon entering the league. This is partly due to the WNBA’s mandatory age/education policy.

On top of that, many of the premier female players endorse different brands and generate an income that way. But just like every NBA player doesn’t have an endorsement deal, neither does every WNBA player, and from the trend that we have already seen, I could guess that they are paid less.

Now, ask me one more time why the WNBA isn’t my end goal.

It’s not because I don’t love playing basketball and it’s not solely because of the money. It is really because after years of receiving a quality education, I have come to find that playing professionally is not my plan A. I have dreams and passions that go far beyond the hardwood and playing ball has ultimately been an enjoyable way to get me to where I am and where I’ve wanted to go. But to deny my other aspirations would be to do a disservice to myself.

If the opportunity ever came up where I could play professionally, right now I don’t think I would say no, but if I did, don’t look at me crazy and say I didn’t tell you so.